the thought: baitul muslim is cool like that!



amboi gambar.ehehe.ameen :)

i have to admit that this few days, I've encountered like a lot of situation that discussed about baitul was cool though because i can actually pick up more or less information from each conversation that I've had.,and seriously those conversations, situations and etc makes me think triple times about the idea of marriage.

it doesn't mean that i'm against marriage.oh no, not at all la buddy. i wish to get married earlier that my ummi did..haha..btw, she got married when she's, the latest for me is nie pon boleh ke? whatever it is, we planned, but His planning is way much better that ours..back to the topic, to be honest, i am one of the supporter when it comes to early marriage..i think it is cool to be able to hold the big responsibility at young age..but still before you get married, you have to actually think ahead..bukan saje suka2 nak kahwin for the sake of having halal relationship la kirenye..

yeap, ahead here means, about your responsibility, your relationship and many more aspects.. there are too many to be listed here, pikiaq sendiri naa..hehe..bukan ape, when u have decided to get married, you are actually have made decision to share your life with a person that u think u might know him/her but actually there are too many things that you do not know..get what i mean? for sure, they will be a lot of minor and major problems in marriage, where you and your partner should handle them with care.. it is good actually to prepare yourself with some plans/solution before you encounter the problems.. ever heard sediakan payung sebelum hujan? basically, this is my point..haha..punye panjang aku explain -.-

and yeah, buat pemuda pemudi harapan agama kat luar sana..never ever forget our main goal that is to be a good khalifah to Allah. stated there in surah al-baqarah, verse 30..marriage is not the goal, it is only an instrument for us to grab the goal..get it?

but hey, let's make sure that the baitul muslim that we build can help us to be a better muslim/muslimah..who knows after marriage, our iman increase, our ibadah increase..who knows kan? *wink2* so, for those who are going to get engage, going to get marry, timba la sebanyak mana ilmu that you can..have sharing session with elders, have sessions like tanyalah ustaz ke, follow a few baitul muslim's course ke...never stop learning and asking questions..even after marriage, never stop learning..believe me, even after 20 years of marriage you will not stop learning about this topic. *gaya macam banyak pengalaman -.-

anyway, baitul muslim is cool like that. eh, harus la cool, things that Allah asked us to do are cool tau.. but again, this is not our main goal..and never love someone more than your love towards Allah and nabi Muhammad S.A.W..inshaAllah, your life will be blessed :)

ahah, sangat la weird when i write about this..this is my humble opinion opinion might not the same as yours because each of us did have different way of won't be fun if all of us think, what do you think? baitul muslim is cool like that because .... *isi tempat kosong*

pens off.till next time.salam alaik

p/s: things had been clarified.i'm so happy. i feel like flying now.weeehuu..thank you Allah :)

the story: raya



too many things to do. too many things that i want to do but i don't have the opportunity to do. too many things inside my head that is waiting for their turn to come out and show themselves. oho..dilema wanita sungguh...haha..anyway, salam eid to all..well, we're still in syawal right?

and yeah, today is september. it shows that i will have to go through a super busy month. assignments, perkhemahan KRS, Bina Insan Guru and etc.. and i really have no clue how i'm suppose to do all those things calmly..haha..may Allah ease our days..

malaih dah ceq nak menaip..nah amik la tatap gambaq raya ceq yang tak brapa nak havoc sgt tahun nie.. and i wonder why..age factor kah? -.-

masa nie tak nangis lagi.kental la konon.
dang.masa nih xleh tahan dah.haha -.- *buruk nor*
le familia
with uda's children
umi saya jangok
kid's rule
and i do not know when will i post a more serious entry. may Allah gives me the ilham to write.ameen.

off writing.till next time, assalamualaikum